Hi,
Please set the cancel button to another button, then you can hide the custom cancel button to achieve this requirement, like below.
<CuteWebUI:UploadAttachments ID="uploader1" runat="server" CancelButtonID="btn_Cancel">
</CuteWebUI:UploadAttachments>
<asp:Button ID="btn_Cancel" runat="server" Style="visibility: hidden" />
Regards,
Ken