Dear Armand66,
For your VB2010 project,
1. You need to copy CuteChat.AppCode.dll,CuteChat.dll,CuteChat.lic,CuteMessenger.lic to bin folder,
then copy CuteSoft_Client folder to the root path of your project
2. Create a provider based on your site's membership, details from http://cutesoft.net/forums/permalink/74835/74781/ShowThread.aspx#74781
3. Run the CutechatStandalone.sql sql scripts in the SQL 2008 Database of your site.
Regards,
Jeff