saintpoida:
Can i make it a bigger number just to see if this would help?
No, I don't think so it will help.
It looks like the SQL Server is slow.
Let us try this:
1. Install the Cute Chat in your localhost
2. Createa local DB and test it. If you don't have a SQL Server in localhost, use MSDE.
If it works OK, your server must have a very slow connection your SQL Server.
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