>>I guess Messenger gets bundled in but is licensed separately or something, right?
Yes.
>>And to not license it you simply don't add the Messenger bits to the configuration so that it doesn't show up at the top with the login links, right?
If you don't need the messenger, you can simply remove it from CS.
>>The other question is, when we did try to use Messenger......
Cute Web Messenger doesn't keep its own user membership. It uses the CS's Membership database directly. However the relationship between the members are stored in Cute Web Messenger own DB.
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