>>File Uploads - I havent got to try this yet. But does this allow files to be shared between each chat member? Is there a way to limit the sharing to just moderator to user rather than user to user?

 

File upload function is only available to web messenger users, admin of the chat rooms.

 

>>Whisper - My client wants the ability to have the whisper ONLY between the moderator and the user, not user to user. Is this possible?

 

Yes, but I need to find out how to do that tomorrow.

 

>>Where do you find the IP of the users? This is to be used in the Deny/Allow IP in the admin section.

 

Login as admin and select the username, right click. In the context menu, you will find all options.

 

>>Is there a way to keep the chat program from loggin the chat? My client does not want any record of the chat in the database period. For legal reasons. How do I keep it from logging anything in the database?

 

All the records are automatically stored in the DB. However you can remove it in admin console.  Or you can let you DBA write a stored procedure and remove the records automatically everynight.